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Archive for April, 2007

Plentyoffish in the UK

Looks like Plentyoffish is going to do more stuff in the UK, with the launch of a new affiliate programme. The UK market still has a lot of scope for growth. I would say much more than the US market right now. We’ll see how big a chunk of that growth Plentyoffish can get.

I’d just like to point out the happy fact that 3 of the 7 sites mentioned in the Hitwise report are ours. Dating For Parents took a lot less than a year to hit the top 10. I’m not sure where our latest site stands, but it’s growing pretty fast so if it’s not there already it will be soon.

Oh, and our affiliate programmes (via Webgains or Tradedoubler) pay better. Just saying :)

Let the games begin.

2 comments April 8th, 2007

BBC: Date rape drugs ‘not widespread’. Or are they?

A while ago, the BBC quoted a report stating that many cases of use of date rape drugs like rohypnol in rape cases were unfounded. The report claimed that in most cases the women had simply drunk too much.

Now, apparently, there is another report from the Government’s Advisory Council on the misuse of drugs showing the exact opposite.
Not only are there two commonly used date rape drugs that are entirely legal, apparently all of those substances leave the body quite quickly, so unless the drug test is performed very quickly, there is nothing left to test and the impression is that only alcohol was involved.

The council analysed this research in its own report and found that in some cases there were clear delays between an incident and attempts to detect samples.

And in 41 of the 62 instances where alcohol was detected, one or more controlled drugs were also present.

Obviously, I think it’s pretty fair to assume that the majority of these cases were not a result of online dating, but this is as good a time as any to reiterate how important it is to follow the standard online dating safety rules when meeting people. They are available on every decent dating site, as well as in my book (obviously!) and all over the Internet (such as here )These rules may seem paranoid and over the top but, personally, I’d rather be paranoid than a victim. When pubs and drinking are concerned, you’re better off not letting your guard down. By all means, drink and be merry, but don’t overdo it and don’t ever leave your drink unattended.

Add comment April 2nd, 2007

The best job in the world

I held off writing about this for a few days, but enough is enough. Sooner or later it was bound to come out.
Durex are looking for condom testers. No money, but plenty of perks. Obviously.
Closing date for applications is 30th of April so there’s still time!

Just remember: saying you have a whole load of free condoms and a contract with Durex is not as good a chat up line as it may first seem :)

Add comment April 1st, 2007

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