New questions and answers section
March 27th, 2007
Since I started this blog, I’ve had a few people email me with some online dating problems/questions, so I thought it may be a good idea to invite more people to do the same. I’ll post them on here with the answers but obviously won’t include any personal information. So if anyone out there has any burning online dating questions, don’t be afraid to ask!
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1. Nathan | March 13th, 2008 at 12:17 pm
Hi Shimrit
Our dating and social site Do-My, has just been soft launched and it’s fair to say we are embarking on a journey taken by many higher qualified than ourselves. One of my personal goals for our new dating site is to understand better the psyche of people when dating, and give those people back suggestions for more success. Having read the lion share of the views by authors and other sites across the internet, I feel the general public need better advice about themselves. I’m not talking about relationship counselling but more understanding their wants and how to get them.
I say this because many people I have spoken with about their requirements in a partner, have incredibly different requirements to the people they spend time with and get on with socially.
I’m just wondering whether we are a little distracted nowadays by the millions of views of others and not really focussing on what is important to us personally.
I scored some speed dating feedback once upon a time and it revealed very interesting results, in short it showed, at the beginning daters made a note of what they required in a potential partner, yet when the scores came in after the dating sessions, they got on with people that were nothing like their requirements, some really well. However do you know what, when they came back again the second time, the previous experience had not change their personal requirements of a potential partner at all! It was as if they hadn’t even consciously learned from the previous experience.
Are we listening to ourselves enough?
I have created an experiment on our website that is open to all; it asks the question “What are the most persuasive words in dating?” Give it ago the findings currently are quite interesting. I’ll let you know how it progresses.
Thanks Nathan
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