It is totally okay for women to hit on men, in fact it should be more actively encouraged!

I wouldn’t class myself as ‘shy’ in the conventional sense when talking and flirting with women, but have never had the self-confidence to be the one to make ‘the move’ – even when its so painfully obvious I still second-guess myself into whether I’ve read the signs right, worrying if I’ve read it wrong then talking myself out of it.

I kick myself after every time too, the amount of chances I’ve missed I can no longer count! In fact every girl I’ve ended up seeing, she’s always been the one who made the move. So ladies, it is totally okay to be the one who takes control!